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Love is just a word without action!

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 I have found that everyone uses the term I love you so very loosely, especially in romantic relationships. Why do you think that is? I have a hypothesis about it and it deals with what we were taught that love was in our youth. We must understand taught behavior follows us into adulthood and if we are not careful that learned behavior will wreak havoc in our adult life in terms, of employment, finances, romantic relationships, and even our mental health.       Growing up I realized I had never seen much in terms of public displays of affection between my parents and this literally made me as an adult shy away from it in my marriages because I couldn't rationalize why exactly it was needed. Now, in the intimacy of my bedroom, it was on and popping with no inhibitions, and anything my partner needed I was willing to indulge him. Yet, I was never one to say the word I love you because to me it meant many a different things and they were all based on action. So, in...