Damaged yet worth it!

 Have you noticed that once your divorced, widowed or fresh out of a relationship how hard it is to fall in love again? Well, I have been divorced, I got remarried and was in that marriage for about twelve years and my husband passed away unexpectedly and now after nine years of being widowed I still have yet to make a love connection. Let's be honest the dating pool right now is full of crazies and want to be freaks....Lol. I have been kind of limited to the kind of man I really want and need due to the lack of them existing. Ladies we might be damaged which makes us picky this isn't a bad thing we are just more cautious due to our experiences having formed our reluctance to crap. I am a certified life coach and I have talked to so many woman who are in my same boat let's help each other navigate this new world of 40ish dating. Who's willing to come along with me and my friend's on our journey of discovery into the unknowns of 40ish dating?

Comments

ryry said…
You a very strong, beautiful and remarkable lady! You will find the one that is out there searching for you. He coming!
December 20, 2021 at 2:31 PM
Breez said…
Wow, I must say it's a process and understanding each other as time goes and letting go 4 a new chapter with a lot of communication.
December 20, 2021 at 8:23 PM
Untia B. said…
Thank you I am hoping we can all find love and we can do it by better understanding the dating game!
December 21, 2021 at 11:26 AM
Untia B. said…
I agree, but we have lost the most vital parts of what made dating a unique process and exchanged it for socialism at it finest.
December 21, 2021 at 11:28 AM
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