What are we looking for in terms of connection?

 When we think of romantic attachment/connection we think of security, home, family, stability, sexual gratification and lasting commitment. Well those are all the things I think of and the ability to connect to them on a spiritual level. What we don't often look for is that deeper part of a union that goes beyond the physical realm this is the thing that tethers us together. I know we say a family that prays together stays together but that's not always the truth and those misconception in christian relationships are the main reasons they are falling apart because words from the lips which are not manifested in the heart are just simply words without meaning. Prayer without action falls to the ground so we must dig a little deeper and ask why what we pray for our partnerships and relationships is not manifesting. First is our creator happy with the union, was it his perfect will for your life or his submissive will and did the union start on the right terms. We must understand that even if we make the situation right judgement is still attached to it because sin brings forth corruption and death no matter how you look at it some call it karma God calls it judgement. These things are attached to some relationships due to how the union started. The saying how it began is how it will end definitely is a true statement.  We must learn to know each other spiritually not just emotionally & physically all aspects of a relationship has to line up for it to be successful and maintained  this is where we are failing in the respect of working to bridge our gaps together in some areas. What are some of the things you are looking for in a romantic connection? Leave a message in the comments I would love to pick your brains and hear your hearts on this matter. Till next time love and blessings!