New Year New You the Irony of it all!

                                     Learning to invest in yourself this Fall!

In my 46 years of life, I was always the type to want to make sure everyone was good even at my own expense it wasn't until recently I learned a valuable lesson and it opened my eyes to the fact you can always show up for others and those same people won't show up for you. So, this Fall let people, places, and things that don't mean you any good go and live your best life!

People will demand and pull from you and never give back. They will see the toll it's taking on you and will talk about you, tear you down to others all the while watching you and praying for your downfall so they can say I knew she or he couldn't do it or I told you she or he wouldn't get out of this situation. But I am here to tell you to invest in your future, business, dreams, and goals. And you can and will break free from any situation we must realize nothing lasts forever and there is always an expected end. 

    You have the power to change not only your life but your family's life our kids are watching us so we must be an example not only in good moral standing but in showing them to invest in themselves and reach for the unattainable goals and then achieve.  I am not saying that it's easy because it always isn't but it can be done if you will it to be. I say this every morning as my affirmation "If God is Within Me I Can Not Fail" This has been a life changer the fear I had in terms of doing the unknown and stepping out to unknown territories has dissipated and a boldness like no other has replaced the fear. 

Fear limits our progress and traps us in other people's perceptions of what we can do and how we can achieve it. Gaining freedom from fear opens up limitless possibilities so let go of the fear and do what you do best what our creator put you on this earth to do. I am always reminded of a song that simply says "Nobody Else Can Do What God Created You to Do" People can try to talk you out of it and deter you from doing it but it is ultimately your responsibility to do what you were uniquely designed to do in the earth. Just think the very thing you are running from may have the impact to change the world and create a better way of living for humanity. 

So, take that class, learn to dance, write your book, and strive to not just be a better person who has learned boundaries and the lesson of investing in one's self but also spread the message so, that you can help free someone else from the bondage of others.......Until next time Love, Light & Blessings!