Strawberry Letter of the morning: I lost my Job due to protecting a friend from a cheating husband

 In this mornings strawberry letter please be advised that this is a general synopsis of the letter. There was a young lady who was given a position at the work place of a friends husband and by the way he helped her get the job. She started noticing that he was going to met up with a woman everyday around the same time so she was getting suspicious that something was going on with her friend's husband and this mystery woman. She took it upon herself to have her friend's husband followed as well as getting information about who this woman was which turned out she was a local attorney. Granted in the letter she explains that this went on for quite awhile before she started to investigate and felt she should get information in order to inform her friend of her husband's potential behavior. Once she gained enough evidence she had her friend come to the job and catch her husband in action and boy did she catch him. Her husband lied and said that he was seeing this woman to deal with a legal matter and they were in the car due to it lightly raining which we know is a lie because it ain't raining every day chief. He also, began to reprimand his wife for showing up at his job unannounced which to me as a wife is a big red flag this had the wife than to blame the friend who gave her the information which made her suspicious therein she came to his job to investigate the claim herself. Long story short the friend was fired from her job a couple of weeks after the altercation and had a run in with her husband for the reasoning for her getting terminated. 

What do you think? Did the friend over step her boundaries by doing all that extra stuff like having him followed and investigating the woman in which she deemed he was having a questionable relationship with in order to help her friend.

     In my opinion I think she did way to much which some of which could be considered breaking the law in some states. If you look at the bigger picture it really wasn't her business as a whole to do all she did to try and catch this guy. Now, don't get me wrong if I see my friends husband doing some shady stuff I would just confront him and make him aware that I know what you are doing. I would have informed my friend that I seen her husband with said woman in a manner in which I was not insinuating wrong doing just making her aware of the situation. Do I believe she should have been fired for that no. Because if she was doing the job in which she was hired for well a personal issue should not of had a direct affect to her employment. If in fact the friends husband got her fired due to a personal issue outside of the workplace than she has every right to pursue legal action against said company for loss of wages and be issued unemployment until she resumes employment with another company. 

The overall message is we have to mind our business when it comes to certain things. We definitely must understand that some of the extreme behavior we display can cost us in the long run. It's okay to inform a friend of potential wrong doing but it's a whole different ball game when you become a whole private eye to catch someone who has no real connection to you in anyway other than him being a friends husband in a compromising position. Your priorities were way off and it had some destructive repercussions due to it.......Moral of the story stay in your lane and MIND YOUR BUSINESS!

Until next time Love, light & Blessings!