New Year New You the Irony of it all!

 In light of the changing year, we all come to the conclusion that we must change different aspects of our lives or better ourselves in some way whether it be weight loss, decluttering our homes, changing careers, or searching for love we all dedicate ourselves to the process of growth and newness. I always wonder why we must wait until a certain time of year to make purposeful changes in our lives. Life doesn't stop because it's not January 1st and it darn tooting ain't going to wait for you to show up so why do we put time frames on evolving into better versions of ourselves. 


What is it about our nature that holds us back from seizing moments that can change our lives? In my case, it has always been fear I tend to stay towards things and situations where I have a defined outcome and safety in the general routine of things. I have never been one to just take a risk I must have a defined plan, execution, and outcome before I will ever invest my time and energy towards anything. Some call me boring because I always play it safe in most things and now that I am older I am even worse.....Lol. This year I am Challenging myself to explore the possibility of not always playing it safe and taking some educated risk, especially in love. 

What are some of the things you my readers are looking to do in 2024? I am looking to grow my three businesses as well as turn this wonderful blog into a podcast. Publishing my children's books, erotic fiction, and my book of poetry. I want to travel more with my friends and family and get closer to my creator. I could stand to lose a couple pounds but that's not really a top priority this year because I may be fluffy but I am happy and healthy that's all that matters to me. I am incorporating daily affirmations because the power of life and death is in the tongue so I am speaking my victories to existence all 2024 what I speak and believe I shall have in this year and beyond. I found a lot of times we speak well yet our doubtful hearts don't believe what we speak and it hinders our blessings.


 What I want you to try to do is make a vision board with all the things that you wish to manifest this year pray over it in faith and watch everything that you put on that board come to pass. We may have some roller coaster ups and downs during this year but in the end, we will be victorious in our pursuit of happiness and the reality of fulfilled dreams. Cheers to 2024 and the process of evolving into the most creative, blessed, prosperous, and driven year of our lives let's get at it. As always much love to you and stay illuminated by the light!! 



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